(with apologies for cross-posting...which is about all i have time for these days)
“a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief.” i was
absentmindedly chopping potatoes; luke was at school, and anastasia was happily
unloading the tupperware drawer. suddenly, that snippet of a verse from isaiah
53 was running through my head. although i’ll admit that i have been the last
few weeks, i wasn’t at that moment feeling particularly sorrow- or
grief-filled. but for whatever reason, God chose that moment to give me those
words. “acquainted with grief.”
to be honest, when i think about that phrase as it describes
Jesus, i’m tempted to think, “yeah, but not this
grief. He can’t understand this
sorrow of mine.” do you do that, too? it’s fitting, i think, that i was
suddenly struck with that thought on the threshold of holy week. my suffering
and sorrow worse than His. my grief more unbearable than That. really?
i trust i’m not the only one that thinks that way some days.
i’ll admit (dare i say confess?) that
i’ve been reading the hunger games
books this week. the tale of an astoundingly creatively repressive government,
devising ways to slaughter its citizens, is appalling and nauseating…and
thankfully fictional. but what of the places on earth where governments do just
that? where citizens are in fact murdered by violent dictators and appalling
regimes? forget my silly unbearable suffering; isn’t theirs beyond His understanding? surely. i’m not much for comparing
sufferings (here
are my thoughts about that, if you’re curious), but surely those persecuted
citizens’ suffering is worse than mine. and surely He doesn’t understand
theirs.
does He?
writing has long been my escape. but unfortunately, despite
a more-powerful-than-ever need for solace in my life, this isn’t the season for
me to write. as i chop potatoes, i am solely responsible for all of my
children’s needs, day and in and day out; my phone is never far from my pocket,
anticipating as i always am calls from various people in official capacities,
deciding innumerable details about my life and my children’s; my ministry is
ever and always on my mind, either in the forefront with planning to do and
curriculum to write and emails to answer, or percolating in the background,
ideas simmering and sputtering at all hours. and i most want to write about
what i know, what i experience; but there are some seasons of life when those
things are not fit for public consumption, for recording on the page or the screen.
not for now. those things are mine alone, and not to be shared. except.
except when i heard (did i hear it, exactly?) this snippet of a verse from God, here on the
cusp, the very edge of the week when we revisit and re-learn just what it means
that Jesus is in fact acquainted with all
our sorrows and griefs, more intimately than we could ever imagine—when i heard
that, i couldn’t help but write it down. to remember. and to share. for the
days unlike today when, in fact, i am
overwhelmed by the sorrows and griefs that i deep down believe to be impossible
for anyone else to understand. my
suffering is not my own. maybe that will mean something to you today—or
another day—too.
and as i attempt to deflect the tears from my potatoes (good
thing i planned to salt them anyhow), i’ll thank God afresh for that, for holy
week, for the reminder that—try as i may—i can’t possibly own those sorrows for
myself.
